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DefinitionMindplay is, within BDSM, a form of mental play in which the Dominant consciously influences the thoughts, beliefs, or perceptions of the sub. The goal is to create tension, confusion, or surrender by manipulating the sub’s perception of reality. The stimulus is not physical pain, but mental suggestion, deception, and psychological power. Explanation of Mindplay Mindplay is the art of
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DefinitionMental play is a form of play within BDSM that focuses on psychological experiences rather than physical stimuli. It revolves around influencing the thoughts, emotions, expectations, and subconscious reactions of the submissive, with the aim of creating deep mental surrender, tension, or confusion. Explanation of mental play Mental play is the art of mental domination – the ability to affect,
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a mindfuck is a form of play in which the Dominant consciously influences the sub’s thoughts, perceptions, or expectations in order to create confusion, tension, or surrender. It is not about physical stimuli, but about psychological manipulation and control – playing with what someone thinks is happening. Explanation of mindfuck A mindfuck is one of the most sophisticated
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a piece of furniture – or human furniture – is a person who is temporarily used as a living object – for example, as a table, stool, footstool, or stand – to explore power, objectification, and surrender. The submissive fulfills the role of a functional object within a ritual or session, often as an expression of absolute obedience
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DefinitionA metrosexual is a heterosexual man who pays a lot of attention to his appearance, grooming, fashion, and lifestyle, often with a refined or aesthetic look that used to be considered “feminine.” The term combines metropolitan (urban) and sexual and refers to the modern, self-aware man who values comfort and style. Explanation of metrosexual The term metrosexual became popular in
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DefinitionMilking refers within BDSM to the rhythmic and prolonged stimulation of the penis or prostate with the aim of inducing or forcing a (often controlled) orgasm and/or ejaculation. The act is also known as milking and can be performed manually, with toys, or via electrostimulation. Explanation of milking Milking is a popular practice in the world of control and chastity.
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a Mistress is a female Dominant who exercises leadership, control, and responsibility over her sub. She determines the rhythm, rules, and intensity of the experience, within a framework of trust, consent, and mutual respect. The title Mistress symbolizes female strength, wisdom, and self-aware leadership in both a physical and mental sense. Explanation Mistress The Mistress embodies the heart
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DefinitionIn BDSM, a Master is a male Dominant who exercises power, leadership, and responsibility over a sub (often a female or male submissive). The term refers not only to a role during a session, but often also to a deeper attitude to life in which care, structure, and control are central. Explanation Master The title Master has both symbolic and
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DefinitionMedical play (also known as medical role-play) is a form of BDSM in which medical procedures, instruments, or rituals are reenacted or experienced as part of erotic, psychological, or power-oriented play. The experience varies from role-playing between “doctor” and “patient” to realistic procedures such as injections, catheterization, sounding, or examination play. Explanation of medical play Medical play combines excitement, power,
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DefinitionMediFet is a contraction of medical fetish and refers within BDSM to the fascination or excitement that arises from medical themes, acts, or instruments. The experience can vary from realistic reenactments of medical examinations to symbolic rituals involving care, power, pain, or humiliation. Explanation MediFet At MediFet, everything revolves around the interplay between control, vulnerability, and trust. For many people,
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