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DefinitionSadism within BDSM is the consensual administration of pain, intensity, or stimuli for the purpose of arousal, experience, or energy exchange. It is voluntary, with mutual consent, and within clear boundaries. This is separate from the historical, non-consensual concept of sadism. Explanation of sadism Sadism is often misunderstood due to its historical meaning, originating from the Marquis de Sade. In
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DefinitionMarquis de Sade (Donatien Alphonse François de Sade, 1740–1814) was a French aristocrat, writer, and philosopher known for his explicit, violent, and taboo-breaking sexual novels. His name is the basis for the word sadism, but his work is unrelated to modern, consensual BDSM. Explanation Sade the Marquis Marquis de Sade is a controversial figure in the history of sexuality. He
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DefinitionA ruler is a flat, hard ruler (usually made of wood or plastic) that is used in BDSM as a striking instrument for sharp, direct, and linear pain stimuli. It functions as a variant within impact play, comparable to light canes or flat paddles. Explanation of ruler The ruler is often used because of its accessibility and the specific sound
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DefinitionA ruined orgasm is an orgasm in which the climax is initiated, but the actual release is prevented by removing or changing the stimulation at the last moment. The result is an incomplete, often frustrating, and intensely palpable after-sensation. Explanation of ruined orgasm A ruined orgasm deliberately plays with the moment when a sub is just about to cross the
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DefinitionA Rose Ceremony is a symbolic BDSMritual in which a red rose, a white rose, a necklace, and the blood of both Dominant and sub come together as a sign of devotion, trust, loyalty, and equal connection within a D/s relationship. It is sometimes referred to as a “BDSM marriage.” Explanation of the rose ceremony The rose ceremony is a
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DefinitionA rope bunny is a submissive who enjoys being tied up during bondage or Shibari. The term refers to someone who is the recipient of the rope and coincides with the role of a bunny. For a detailed explanation, see Bunny. More information EncyclopediaLetter R
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DefinitionRole play is a form of BDSM in which one or both partners assume a different role, identity, or situation to enhance excitement, fantasy, or a certain dynamic. The game is deliberately created and based entirely on consent and agreements. Explanation of role play Role play is one of the most versatile forms of BDSM. It gives partners the space
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DefinitionA ring gag is a gag with an open, round metal or plastic ring that forces the mouth open. It is used to restrict speech, increase surrender, or provide access to the mouth during BDSM play. Explanation of ring gag Whereas a classic ball gag closes the mouth, a ring gag does exactly the opposite: it keeps the mouth wide
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DefinitionRimming is a sexual act in which a partner’s anus is stimulated with the mouth and tongue. This form of oral-anal sex is also known as anilingus or ass licking. Within BDSM, it can be both an intimate form of surrender and an element of humiliation play, depending on the intention and dynamics between Dominant and sub. Explanation of rimming
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