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DefinitionOrgasm control is a form of BDSM play in which the Dominant consciously takes control over whether or not to allow an orgasm. This can mean delaying, prohibiting, enforcing, or precisely timing a climax. The sub thereby relinquishes a deep sense of sexual control. Explanation of orgasm control Orgasm control comes in various forms, all of which revolve around the
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DefinitionOral sex within BDSM refers to any form of sexual stimulation with the mouth, lips, or tongue. It can be gentle, loving, or dominant and forceful, depending on the dynamic. Within BDSM, oral sex often has a power component, because the Dominant determines how, when, and with what intensity it takes place. Explanation of oral sex Oral sex can have
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DefinitionAbduction within BDSM refers to a staged, entirely voluntary, and prearranged form of role play in which a submissive is “taken away,” restrained, or overpowered within a safe context. It involves fantasy, power play, and adrenaline, never real coercion or danger. Explanation of kidnapping Kidnapping play is one of the most intense forms of psychological role-playing. The excitement comes not
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DefinitionA spreader bar or One Bar Prison is a bondage and immobilization technique in which the wrists and ankles of the sub are secured to a single, sturdy metal or wooden bar. The bar acts as a central anchor point, keeping the body tightly aligned and severely restricting freedom of movement. For a detailed explanation, see one bar prison. More
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DefinitionA One Bar Prison is a bondage and immobilization technique in which the wrists and ankles of the submissive are secured to a single, sturdy metal or wooden bar. The bar acts as a central anchor point, keeping the body tightly aligned and severely restricting freedom of movement. Explanation of one bar prison One Bar Prison is a minimalist but
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