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DefinitionObjectification within BDSM refers to the conscious treatment or experience of a person as an object, in a context of voluntary power play. The sub is temporarily reduced to a function, possession, or instrument, whereby their own will or identity is subordinated to the wishes of the Dominant.It is an intense form of psychological and symbolic play, in which words
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DefinitionNursing refers within BDSM to a form of caring or nurturing play, in which one of the partners takes on the role of caregiver, nurse, or nurturing figure. The term comes from the English word “to nurse” – to care for, comfort, or feed – and can range from gentle, caring attention to symbolic or actual breastfeeding (adult nursing). Explanation
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DefinitionJohn Norman is the pseudonym of American author John Frederick Lange Jr. (born 1931), known for the Gor book series. His work combines science fiction with themes of domination and submission, and has influenced the way some people view BDSM, especially slavery dynamics, worldwide. Explanation Norman John Norman’s first novel, Tarnsman of Gor (1966), is set on the fictional planet
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DefinitionNo Nuts November is an annual challenge in November, in which participants abstain from masturbation and/or ejaculation. The concept originated in internet culture and is approached both playfully and seriously, including within the BDSM world – especially in the context of chastity play or no-cumming rules. Explanation No Nuts November The term No Nuts November originated as an internet meme
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DefinitionA no-go is a clear personal prohibition or hard limit within BDSM. It refers to actions, subjects, or forms of experience that are non-negotiable or unacceptable to someone. A no-go is therefore something that does not happen, regardless of the situation, role, or mood. Explanation of no go In BDSM, communication about boundaries is essential. Players often distinguish between three
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DefinitionNipple clamps (also known as nipple clamps) are small clamps that are placed on the nipples to stimulate pain, pressure, or pulling sensations. They are used in BDSM as a form of sensory play or pain play, and can range from mildly stimulating to intensely painful, depending on the model and settings. Explanation of nipple clamps Nipple clamps come in
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DefinitionA newbie is a term used within the BDSM world to refer to someone who is new to the BDSM experience. The word comes from the English word “new” and literally means “newcomer.” A newbie can be dominant, submissive, or switch and is in the phase of discovery, learning, and orientation. Explanation of newbie The term newbie is often used
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DefinitionA nose hook is a BDSM instrument used to pull the nostrils open or lift the nose. It is usually used in bondage, medical play or humiliation to give the sub a defenseless, open or humiliated appearance. The nose hook can be used for both functional and aesthetic purposes. Explanation of nose hook A nose hook usually consists of a
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