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DefinitionPowerlessness is the feeling or state in which someone no longer feels in control of what is happening. Within BDSM, it refers to the conscious surrender of control by the sub to the Dominant, creating a feeling of total dependence, surrender, and sometimes emotional liberation. Explanation of powerlessness Powerlessness can be induced both physically and mentally within BDSM. Physical powerlessness
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DefinitionM/s stands for Master/slave and is comparable to D/s. D/s stands for Dominance and submission (dominance and submission). It is the basic dynamic within many BDSM relationships, in which one person consciously takes the lead (the Dominant) and the other voluntarily relinquishes control (the submissive). For a detailed explanation, see D/s More information EncyclopediaLetter M
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DefinitionThe BDSM logo is the international symbol of the BDSM community. It consists of a circle divided into three parts by a curved, twisting symbol reminiscent of a spinning triangle or the Ying Yang symbol. There is a dot in each of the three fields. The design is derived from the traditional triskelion (or triskele), an ancient symbol representing movement,
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DefinitionLocktober is an annual BDSMevent in which men (usually subs) are kept chaste throughout the month of October using a chastity belt or cock cage. The name is a combination of lock (to lock up) and October. The goal is to strengthen self-control, dedication, and mental surrender within a D/s dynamic. Explanation of Locktober Locktober started as a playful challenge
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DefinitionCorporal punishment or castigation is a form of physical punishment that inflicts pain or discomfort on the body. Within BDSM, it refers to the consensual use of physical punishment such as hitting, spanking, whipping, or other forms of impact, with the aim of providing sensation, discipline, emotional release, or reinforcement of the D/s dynamic. Explanation of corporal punishment Although the
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, the term lifestyle refers to a way of life in which BDSM is not just a game or sexual preference, but an essential part of a person’s identity, values, and daily experience. A lifestyleDom(me) or lifestylesub experiences the D/s dynamic not only in the bedroom, but also in attitude, communication, and energy outside of play. Explanation of lifestyle
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DefinitionLove balls or Ben-Wa balls (also known as vaginal balls, pleasure marbles or geisha love balls) are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina for sexual stimulation, pelvic floor training, or arousal. Within BDSM, they are often used as part of control, playground, or humiliation games. For a detailed explanation, see Ben Wa balls. More information EncyclopediaLetter L
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