De complete BDSM encyclopedie voor kennis, veiligheid en beleving
DefinitionA kinkster is someone who actively participates in or is attracted to the BDSM– or kink community. The word refers to people who consciously and proudly express their sexual or emotional preferences outside the norm, often within an atmosphere of mutual respect, consent, and self-discovery. Explanation of Kinkster The term kinkster is often used as a collective term for anyone
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DefinitionThe word kink refers to a sexual preference, fantasy, or act that deviates from what is generally considered “normal” or conventional. Someone who is kinky is attracted to such alternative forms of sex or intimacy, often with an emphasis on power, control, pain, rituals, or fetishism. Explanation of Kink / Kinky The term kink originates from English and literally means
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DefinitionKinging is a term used within the BDSMand kink community to refer to actively experiencing, celebrating, and embracing one’s fetish, kink, or preference. It is more than “doing something kinky”; it is a conscious attitude toward life in which a person acknowledges and expresses their desires, fantasies, and sexual identity without shame. Explanation Kinging Kinging is about the art of
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DefinitionKinbaku (緊縛) is a Japanese art form of erotic rope bondage in which the body is tied in an aesthetic, sensual, and often emotionally charged manner. The word literally means “tight binding” and refers to the intimate connection between the binder (the bakushi or nawashi) and the person being tied (the bottom or sub). Explanation of Kinbaku Kinbaku is much
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DefinitionA tickle feather is a soft, usually elongated object made from natural or synthetic feathers that is used in BDSM to stimulate the skin in a titillating, sensual way. It is a classic tool in sensory play, intended to induce tingling, goosebumps, and heightened sensitivity. Explanation of tickling feather The tickle feather is one of the simplest but most effective
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DefinitionTickling is a form of light sensation or torture play within BDSM in which one person deliberately touches another in sensitive areas to elicit a reaction of laughter, squirming, or helplessness. It can range from playful and intimate to a form of controlled torment, depending on the intensity and intention. Explanation of tickling Tickling is a surprisingly versatile form of
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DefinitionA keyholder is, within BDSM, the person who keeps the key to a chastity belt or CB worn by the sub. The keyholder has control over whether or not to open or remove the chastity device and thus indirectly determines if, when, and how the sub can experience sexual gratification. Explanation of keyholder The term keyholder refers to a unique
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