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DefinitionFLR is an abbreviation for Female Led Relationship. It is a type of relationship in which the woman consciously takes on the leading, guiding, and decision-making role. The man takes on a more subordinate or supportive position, often based on trust, respect, and mutual consent. Within BDSM, an FLR often falls under the umbrella of Femdom, but it can also
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DefinitionA Female Led Relationship (abbreviated to FLR) is a type of relationship in which the woman consciously takes on the leading, guiding, and decision-making role. The man takes on a more subordinate or supportive position, often based on trust, respect, and mutual consent. Within BDSM, an FLR often falls under the umbrella of Femdom, but it can also exist outside
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DefinitionA flogger is a commonly used BDSMinstrument consisting of a handle with multiple leather, rubber, or suede strands (also called tails). It is used to strike, caress, or stimulate the skin. The flogger is one of the most versatile and characteristic attributes in BDSM, suitable for both gentle sensual touches and firm discipline. Explanation of flogger The flogger is a
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DefinitionFlagellation – also known as castigation – is the beating or whipping of the body with a whip, rope, or other instrument, usually as part of a ritual, religious, or erotic experience. Within BDSM, it refers to a controlled form of beating with the aim of physical stimulation, emotional release, or spiritual experience. Explanation of flagellation The word flagellation comes
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DefinitionFisting (also known as fist fucking) is a sexual act in which the hand or fist is gently inserted into the anus or vagina. Within BDSM, it is seen as an intense form of physical surrender, trust, and connection between Dominant and submissive. For a detailed explanation, see Fist fucking. More information EncyclopediaLetter F
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DefinitionFist fucking (also known as fisting) is a sexual act in which the hand or fist is gently inserted into the anus or vagina. Within BDSM, it is seen as an intense form of physical surrender, trust, and connection between Dominant and submissive. Explanation of Fist fucking Fistfucking is one of the most intimate and physical forms of sexual experience
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DefinitionA Findomme – short for Financial Dominant Mistress – is a female Dominant who exercises power over her submissive through financial control or monetary surrender. She is the leading figure in Findom (Financial Domination) and combines psychological dominance with symbolic power over money, status, and dependence. Explanation of Findomme Findomme is a specific manifestation within the Femdom world, in which
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DefinitionFindom is short for Financial Domination. It is a form of BDSM in which the submissive transfers their money, possessions, or financial control to a dominant woman (the Mistress), who can exchange this for power, instructions, or attention. The act revolves around power, control, and emotional experience – not just money. Explanation of Findom Findom occupies a special place in
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DefinitionA cash slave (also known as a pay pig) is a submissive man who derives sexual or emotional pleasure from giving money, gifts, or financial power to a dominant woman – usually a Findomme (Female Financial Dominant). This form of submission is part of Findom (Financial Domination) and revolves around surrender, control, and devotion, not just financial gain. Explanation cash
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DefinitionFigging is a BDSM practice in which a piece of fresh ginger root (usually peeled and cut into the shape of a butt plug) is inserted into the anus or vagina to create an intense, burning, and tingling sensation. The sensation is temporary, natural, and often used as a form of punishment, humiliation, or sensual pain play. Explanation of Figging
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