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DefinitionA whipping post is a sturdy pole or structure to which a person is tied in order to be punished with a flogger or similar instrument. In BDSM, the flogging post is used as a restraint for spanking, discipline, or ritual experiences, in which power, surrender, and discipline are central. Explanation of the whipping post The flogging post has its
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DefinitionShaving refers within BDSM to the complete or partial removal of body hair, usually from the pubic area, armpits, or the entire body. It can have a practical, aesthetic, or symbolic meaning within the dynamic between Dominant and sub. Explanation of shaving Shaving a sub can have different meanings depending on the context. For some, it is a ritual of
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DefinitionWithin BDSM and fetishism, gender-bending refers to consciously playing with or reversing traditional gender roles, clothing styles, and behaviors. It revolves around exploring masculine and feminine energy, regardless of biological sex or social expectations. Explanation of gender bending In the BDSM world, gender bending comes in all shapes and sizes, from subtle role-playing variations to pronounced transformations. For example, a
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DefinitionForced feminization is a BDSM game in which a male submissive is dressed, treated, or trained as a woman by his dominant partner. The game often combines elements of power, humiliation, eroticism, and psychological surrender, and can be both playful and deeply emotional in nature. Explanation of forced feminization Forced feminization emphasizes the process of transformation. The dominant woman (often
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DefinitionA pillory is a wooden or stone post that in earlier times served as a place of punishment, torture, or execution. Within BDSM, the term is sometimes used symbolically or aesthetically to refer to a post or structure to which a sub can be tied during a punishment or humiliation game. Explanation of the pillory Historically, the pillory was often
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DefinitionPleasure balls – also known as Geisha love balls or Ben-Wa balls – are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina for erotic stimulation or to train the pelvic floor muscles. In BDSM and sensual play, they are used to increase body awareness, stimulate subtle sensations, or build control and tension under the direction of the Dominant. For
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DefinitionGeisha love balls (also known as Ben-Wa balls or pleasure marbles) are small, round balls that are inserted into the vagina and used for stimulation or pelvic floor training. In BDSM and erotic play, they are often used to enhance body awareness, tension, or the Dominant‘s control over the sub’s body. For a detailed explanation, see Ben-Wa balls. More information
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DefinitionA gas mask is a mask that covers the entire face and was originally intended to protect against toxic substances, but within BDSM it is used as part of fetishism, power play, and sensory control. Explanation of gas mask The gas mask is a popular fetish object within BDSM, especially among enthusiasts of latex play, rubber fetish, and breath control.
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DefinitionA gangbang is a sexual activity in which one person is penetrated or sexually satisfied by multiple partners simultaneously or in quick succession. Within BDSM, it can be a form of group dynamics in which power, surrender, and objectification play a role. Explanation of gangbang A gangbang is not necessarily a BDSM activity, but within the BDSM context it often
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DefinitionA gag is an object placed in or over the mouth of a submissive to hinder or completely prevent speech. It is often used in bondage or domination play situations as a symbol of power, control, and submission. Explanation of gag Gags come in various forms, from simple ball gags to advanced metal or inflatable variants. The most well-known is
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