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DefinitionA Gorean Master is, within the Gorean lifestyle, the man who fulfills the role of natural ruler, based on the hierarchical structure from John Norman’s Gor books. He embodies strength, discipline, responsibility, and honor, and has complete control over his kajira (female slave). His dominance is seen as an expression of natural order, in which obedience and protection are balanced
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DefinitionGor is the name of a fictional planet from the book series by author John Norman, on which there is a society with strict hierarchies between men and women. Within the BDSMculture, Gor refers to the Gorean lifestyle, in which domination, obedience, honor, and natural role distribution are central. The term is used to describe both the world from the
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DefinitionGor refers to the fictional planet that is central to the Gor book series by author John Norman. The term Gorean lifestyle refers to the lifestyle, philosophy, or division of roles that emerged from these books. Within the BDSM world, Gorean lifestyle refers to a form of strictly hierarchical dominance and submission, inspired by the relationships between Masters and slaves
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DefinitionA golden shower is a sexual or fetishistic act in which one person deliberately urinates on another, usually as part of a BDSM or humiliation game. The experience is not primarily about urine itself, but about power, surrender, shame, intimacy, or trust between dominant and submissive. Explanation of golden shower The term golden shower refers to the golden color of
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DefinitionGood pain refers within BDSM to pain that is experienced as pleasant, liberating, or exciting. It is pain that does not lead to trauma or rejection, but rather to a deepening of the experience, surrender, and connection between Dominant and submissive. Explanation of good pain The term good pain is used to distinguish between pain that is desirable and meaningful,
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DefinitionA bondage glove, also known as an armbinder, is a tight-fitting leather or latex arm sack in which both arms of the submissive are secured, usually behind the back. It is a form of restrictive bondage intended to completely restrict freedom of movement and enhance feelings of surrender, powerlessness, and submission. Explanation of gloves Gloves are a classic and visually
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DefinitionLubricant is a gel or liquid used to reduce friction during sexual acts or BDSM play. In BDSM, it is essential for comfort, safety, and hygiene, especially during anal play, penetration with toys, or prolonged bondage where the skin is under tension. Explanation lubricant Lubricant is an indispensable aid in many BDSM and fetish experiences. It facilitates penetration, prevents injuries,
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DefinitionGenital piercings are jewelry worn through or around the genitals. In BDSM, they can serve an aesthetic, erotic, or functional purpose, for example for stimulation, control, or as an attachment point for bondage or pain play. Explanation of genital piercings Genital piercings come in many shapes and styles, depending on gender and the desired experience. They are performed by specialized
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DefinitionWeights are small objects made of metal, lead, or rubber that are used in BDSM to apply controlled pressure or tension to the body. They are often attached to nipples, labia, or the scrotum and serve to slowly build tension, pain, and intensity. Explanation of weights The use of weights in BDSM is a refined form of pain and pressure
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DefinitionScent plays an important role in BDSM as a sensory and emotional stimulus. It refers to the conscious use or experience of natural body odors, perfume, smoke, candles, or other aromas to enhance a specific atmosphere, memory, or experience during a session. Explanation of scent Of all the senses, smell is perhaps the most directly connected to emotion and memory.
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