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DefinitionInfantilism is a form of age play in which an adult (usually the sub) consciously takes on the role of a child. This can range from behaviors such as speaking in a childlike voice or wearing children’s clothing, to completely assuming a childlike identity during a session or role play. The Dominant often takes on the role of parent, caregiver,
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DefinitionImprovising within BDSM means that a Dominant or sub responds creatively to the moment, without a predefined script or plan. It is the ability to feel, adapt, and respond spontaneously to whatever arises during play, while maintaining safety, consent, and connection. Explanation of improvisation Improvisation is one of the most underrated skills in BDSM. While many beginners strictly adhere to
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DefinitionIce cubes are used in BDSM as a play object for cold stimulation on the skin or intimate areas. This form of temperature play (temperature sensation) plays with the contrast between cold and heat, and can be used both sensually and sadistically. Explanation of ice cubes The use of ice cubes in BDSM is a relatively simple but effective way
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DefinitionIgnore play is a form of psychological domination in which the Dominant deliberately ignores or pays no attention to the submissive as part of an agreed game or dynamic. The aim is not to punish the sub, but to evoke feelings of rejection, desire, or powerlessness within a safe, controlled setting. Explanation of Ignore Play Ignore play is all about
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