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DefinitionA faker is someone who pretends to be someone else within the BDSM world. The term is used for both fake subs (men who pretend to be potential paying submissives) and fake Mistresses (women who present themselves as Dominants without experience, knowledge, or sincere intention). In both cases, it revolves around deception, lack of authenticity, and often money, attention, or
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DefinitionCunnilingus is the oral stimulation of the vulva and clitoris with the tongue, lips, or mouth. It can be a form of foreplay, but within BDSM it can also be an explicit part of servitude or sexual domination. Explanation of cunnilingus Cunnilingus is one of the most intimate forms of sexual surrender, because it literally revolves around closeness, trust, and
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DefinitionFacesitting is an erotic act in which the dominant partner sits on the face of the submissive partner, usually with the intention of using their mouth or nose for oral satisfaction or breath control. Explanation of facesitting Within BDSM, facesitting can have different meanings and purposes. In most cases, it is a form of sexual domination in which the Dominant
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DefinitionExposure refers to the unauthorized disclosure of someone’s personal information, photos, messages, or BDSM activities – often as a form of revenge, humiliation, or coercion. It is considered transgressive, unethical, and in many cases even criminal behavior. Explanation of exposure Within the BDSM world, exposure unfortunately sometimes occurs when someone is angry, disappointed, or hurt – for example, after a
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DefinitionExhibitionism is the desire to be seen (partially) naked or sexually active, usually with the aim of experiencing excitement, arousal, or recognition. Within BDSM, it is a voluntary experience of control, exposure, and surrender, often in a safe, agreed-upon context. Explanation exhibitionism Exhibitionism comes from the Latin exhibere, which means ‘to show’ or ‘to display’. The desire to be seen
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DefinitionErotic asphyxiation is the induction or simulation of oxygen deprivation during sexual or BDSM experiences to increase the intensity of arousal or orgasm. Explanation of erotic asphyxiation Erotic asphyxiation, also known as breath control, is one of the most risky forms of BDSM. The principle is based on temporarily restricting breathing or blood flow to the brain, which can cause
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DefinitionErogenous zones are parts of the body that are extra sensitive to touch and can therefore arouse sexual excitement. They play an important role in BDSM and intimate contact, because they help to build tension, connection, and experience. Explanation erogenous zones The human body contains countless nerve endings that respond to touch, pressure, temperature, or vibration. The most well-known erogenous
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DefinitionEPE is an abbreviation for Erotic Power Exchange. It refers to the voluntary exchange of power within an erotic or intimate context, whereby one partner (the Dominant) temporarily exercises control and the other (the submissive) voluntarily obeys or surrenders. For a detailed explanation, see enema Erotic Power Exchange. More information EncyclopediaLetter E
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DefinitionErotic Power Exchange (abbreviated EPE) refers to the voluntary exchange of power within an erotic or intimate context, whereby one partner (the Dominant) temporarily exercises control and the other (the submissive) voluntarily obeys or surrenders. Explanation Erotic Power Exchange The term Erotic Power Exchange is at the heart of many BDSM experiences. It is not primarily about pain or discipline,
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