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DefinitionForced orgasm refers within BDSM to the (controlled or uncontrolled) occurrence of an orgasm against the will or without the active consent of the submissive at that moment. It is a form of play that revolves around power, control, and surrender – where the Dominant determines when and whether to climax, not the sub themselves. Explanation of forced orgasm The
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DefinitionA straitjacket is a tight garment or restraint device that completely encloses the upper body and secures the arms firmly to the chest or along the body. In BDSM, the straitjacket is used as a form of bondage and surrender, often with a strong psychological and sensory impact. Explanation of a straitjacket The straitjacket has its origins in psychiatry, where
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DefinitionThumb cuffs are small metal cuffs used to secure the thumbs of one or both hands together. They are a specific form of bondage intended to restrict freedom of movement and evoke a feeling of powerlessness or concentration. Explanation of thumb cuffs Thumb cuffs are a classic and compact tool in BDSM. Their shape resembles miniature handcuffs: two small rings
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DefinitionA dress code within BDSM refers to the clothing requirements that apply during a gathering, party, or session. The dress code is not only intended to create atmosphere and unity, but also to emphasize mutual roles, energy, and respect for the setting. Explanation of dress code Within BDSM culture, clothing has symbolic meaning. It is not just decoration, but an
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DefinitionDP is an abbreviation for double penetration. A sexual act in which one person is penetrated in two ways simultaneously, usually vaginally and anally, or anally and orally. Within BDSM, double penetration can be a form of intense physical play, but also a symbol of total surrender, trust, and pushing boundaries. For a detailed explanation, see Double penetration. More information
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DefinitionDouble penetration (often abbreviated to DP) is a sexual act in which one person is penetrated in two ways simultaneously, usually vaginally and anally, or anally and orally. Within BDSM, double penetration can be a form of intense physical play, but also a symbol of total surrender, trust, and pushing boundaries. Explanation of double penetration Double penetration is a form
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DefinitionDopamine is a neurotransmitter – a chemical messenger in the brain – that is involved in motivation, pleasure, attention, and reward. Within BDSM, dopamine plays a major role in creating tension, excitement, and the desire to repeat certain experiences. Explanation of dopamine Dopamine is one of the most important substances that control our behavior. Whenever we do something that is
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DefinitionDopamine addiction refers to the constant pursuit of stimuli that provide a short-lived feeling of pleasure, excitement, or reward. Within BDSM, this can manifest itself in the desire to repeatedly seek out intense experiences, pain, power, or submission, because these feelings cause a temporary spike in dopamine. Explanation of dopamine addiction Dopamine is a neurotransmitter – a chemical messenger in
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DefinitionA dompteur whip is a long, flexible whip with a stiff stick and a thin cord or strap attached to it, ending in a small string or tip (cracker). Within BDSM, the dompteur whip is mainly used as an instrument of authority, showmanship, or light stimulation, and not to deliver hard blows. Explanation of the dompteur whip The dompteur whip
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DefinitionDomspace is the mental and emotional state in which a Dominant or Domina finds themselves during or after a BDSM session. It is a concentrated, often euphoric state of consciousness in which control, focus, power, and empathy coincide. Domspace is the mirror image of subspace – both arise from intense contact, but from opposite roles. Explanation of Domspace Domspace does
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