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DefinitionThe maid is a common role within BDSM, in which a submissive takes on the role of a domestic helper or servant employed by the Dominant. The experience revolves not only around obedience and servitude, but also humiliation, rhythm, ritual, and sometimes even devotion. Explanation Maid The role of maid has different layers within BDSM. At first glance, it seems
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DefinitionDL is an abbreviation for Diaper Lover. A diaper lover is someone who experiences sexual or emotional arousal from wearing diapers or seeing others do so. This preference can be part of ageplay, infantilism, or regression play, but it also occurs as a standalone fetish. For a detailed explanation, see Diaper lover. More information EncyclopediaLetter D
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DefinitionA diaper lover (DL) is someone who experiences sexual or emotional arousal from wearing diapers or seeing others do so. This preference can be part of age play, infantilism, or regression play, but it also occurs as a standalone fetish. Explanation of diaper lover The term diaper lover (abbreviated DL) refers to people who enjoy diapers, without this always having
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DefinitionAdrenaline is a stress hormone produced by the body in exciting or intense situations. Adrenaline plays a major role in BDSM: it intensifies feelings of excitement, alertness, euphoria, and intensity during pain, fear, or surrender. Explanation of adrenaline Adrenaline – also known as the fight-or-flight hormone – is one of the most important substances produced by the body in response
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DefinitionDevils Fire is a term used in BDSM that refers to the intense, burning sensation caused by sudden, sharp pain stimuli – often during spanking, caning, or impact play. The name symbolizes the moment when pain, lust, and adrenaline merge into a single fiery experience that can be both overwhelming and exciting. Explanation of Devils Fire The term Devils Fire
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DefinitionDeviant literally means ‘deviating from the norm’. Within BDSM, the term is often used to describe someone who consciously lives or desires outside the social sexual norm. The word can be used both playfully and proudly, as a badge of honor for people who follow their own path in sexuality, identity, or experience. Explanation of deviant In the literal sense,
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DefinitionDoor cuffs are a tool used in BDSM to restrain someone to a door. They usually consist of sturdy cuffs or restraints that are hung over the top of a door with a strap or belt, so that the submissive is fixed in an upright position, often with their arms raised. Explanation of door cuffs Door cuffs are popular because
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DefinitionDestroy Dick December is an erotic game or challenge in which the participant is brought to orgasm or stimulates themselves daily throughout the month of December, often with increasing intensity. Within BDSM, it is not taken literally, but used as a form of control, release, or submission in the context of orgasm control, tease & denial, or training. Explanation of
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DefinitionDeprivation is the deliberate removal or restriction of sensory, physical, or emotional stimuli within a BDSM experience, with the aim of making the recipient more sensitive, restless, or receptive. Explanation of deprivation Deprivation is one of the most refined and psychologically powerful forms of play within BDSM. By depriving someone of stimuli, the brain is challenged: it searches for orientation
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