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DefinitionImpact play is a collective term within BDSMfor all forms of play involving controlled strikes, taps, or thrusts to the body, administered by hand or with tools such as a paddle, whip, or flogger. The goal is not to cause injury, but to generate stimulation, tension, and emotional intensity. Impact play revolves around control, rhythm, and the subtle balance between
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DefinitionFace fucking is the English term for deep and rhythmic penetration of the mouth by the penis, whereby the Dominant retains control over tempo and depth. Within BDSM, this act falls under oral domination and power exchange. See also: Deep throat. For a detailed explanation, see deep throat. More information EncyclopediaLetter F
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DefinitionCoprolagnia (from the Greek kopros = excrement and lagneia = lust) refers to the sexual desire or arousal that arises from seeing, smelling, or using feces. Colloquially, this is also referred to as scat play. It is a form of paraphilia and, within the BDSM world, it is one of the most extreme and rare fetishes. Explanation of coprolagnie Coprolagnie
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, caviar (also known as scat) does not refer to the luxury fish product, but to the use of feces in a sexual or fetishistic context. The term originates from French and English slang, where “caviar play” or “scat play” is used to refer to playing with feces. It falls under the category of extreme fetishes and is one
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DefinitionA catheter is a thin, flexible tube that is inserted into the bladder via the urethra to drain urine. In the medical world, this is a standard tool used during surgery or when someone is unable to urinate on their own. In BDSM, the catheter is sometimes used as part of Medical play or urethral play, which involves a combination
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DefinitionA scourge is a striking weapon or whip-like instrument consisting of a short handle with one or more straps, often fitted with knots, metal pieces, or other weights at the end. In BDSM, the scourge is sometimes used as an instrument for spanking or pain play, but it was originally a historical instrument of punishment and torture. Explanation of scourge
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DefinitionA D-ring is a metal ring shaped like the letter “D” that is used as an attachment point in BDSM, for example for ropes, cuffs, chains, or other bondage equipment. The flat side makes the ring stable, while the round side allows for smooth movement of the attachment material. Explanation of D-ring The D-ring is an indispensable part of many
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DefinitionA carabiner is a metal hook with a spring clip or screw closure that is used to quickly and securely attach parts to each other. Within BDSM, the carabiner is widely used in bondage, suspension, and restraint to securely attach ropes, chains, or cuffs to rings or other attachment points. Explanation of carabiner The carabiner originated in mountaineering and climbing,
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DefinitionA Kajira (plural: Kajirae) is a term originating from the Gor novels by author John Norman, in which it refers to a female slave who is the complete property of her master. Within certain BDSM circles, the term is used to refer to a sub who voluntarily and completely submits within a romantic or spiritually inspired D/s dynamic. Explanation of
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DefinitionJOI stands for Jerk Off Instruction, a term used in BDSM and erotic contexts to refer to the guidance or control of masturbation by a Dominant. The submissive receives explicit instructions on what, when, and how to touch themselves, often combined with verbal dominance, control, or teasing. Explanation of JOI JOI is a popular form of mental and verbal domination
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