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DefinitionA blowjob is the stimulation of the penis with the mouth, lips, and tongue. Within BDSM, a blowjob can have different meanings: from pure eroticism to an act of surrender, obedience, humiliation, or devotion. The meaning depends entirely on the context, the dynamics, and the intention with which it is given or requested. Explanation of blowjob In BDSM, a blowjob
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DefinitionBlood cupping is an intense ritual within BDSM in which small cuts are made in the skin and vacuum cups are placed over them to draw blood out. It is a form of medically inspired edge play, in which elements of blood play, sadism, and ritual merge into a ceremonial game of letting go, marking, and surrender. Explanation of blood
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DefinitionBlood play is an intense and risky BDSMgame in which blood is deliberately drawn or used in a sexual or ritual context. The game revolves around the physical and psychological impact of visibly breaking the skin and is only played by experienced players with a strong bond of trust and a good understanding of medical risks. Explanation of blood play
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DefinitionA blindfold is a tool used to temporarily deprive a submissive of their sight. In BDSM, blindfolds are used to heighten the senses, reinforce surrender, and deepen the tension between control and trust.F Explanation of blindfold A blindfold may seem like a simple piece of fabric, but within BDSM it is a powerful tool that does much more than just
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DefinitionA bit is a mouthpiece that is placed between the sub’s teeth and is usually secured behind the head with straps or bands. It is inspired by horse bits used in equestrian sports and is mainly used in BDSM for pony play, pet play, and games that focus on control, submission, or animal transformation. Explanation of a bit A bit
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DefinitionBiting is a form of physical stimulation in which teeth are deliberately used on the skin or flesh, usually as an expression of lust, possession, pain stimulation, or dominance. Within BDSM, biting is used as a form of play in itself, as part of primal play, a sadistic game, or as a means of intimate expression within a D/s dynamic.
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DefinitionBeing bisexual means that someone can feel sexually and/or romantically attracted to both men and women. Within BDSM, this often manifests itself in a broader scope of play and the freedom to engage in experiences with different genders. Explanation of bisexuality Bisexuality is one of the most well-known sexual orientations, but it is still often misunderstood. It is not about
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DefinitieBi-curious is een term die gebruikt wordt voor mensen die zich primair als hetero identificeren, maar nieuwsgierig zijn naar seksuele of romantische ervaringen met iemand van hetzelfde geslacht. Binnen BDSM verwijst het vaak naar een sub of Dom(me) die openstaat voor experiment buiten de eigen ‘standaardoriëntatie’, vaak in een veilige, afgestemde setting. Explanation of Bi-curious Being bi-curious literally means being curious about
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DefinitionBettie Page (1923–2008) was an American model and pin-up icon who became known worldwide for her black-and-white photos in lingerie, bondage positions, and BDSM-like settings. She is considered one of the first women to make BDSM visible to a wider audience and is still revered today as The Queen of Pinups and an underground feminist symbol. Explanation Bettie Page Bettie
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DefinitioA crate is a metal or plastic cage, originally intended for dogs, which is used in BDSM to temporarily confine a submissive as a form of humiliation, possession play, or pet play. Being confined in the crate evokes feelings of submission, dependence, and loss of status. Explanation of the bench The bench is a powerful symbol within BDSM. What was
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