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DefinitionBreath reduction is a BDSM practice in which a sub’s breathing is temporarily restricted or controlled. This restriction can be physical or psychological and aims to create an increased sense of excitement, power, control, or surrender. Breath reduction is a form of edgeplay and carries both physical and mental risks. Explanation of breath control Breath control – also known as
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DefinitionWithin BDSM, abrasion refers to the deliberate creation of a scratching, rough, or scraping sensation on the skin, usually as part of sadistic or sensory play. It can be both physically painful and sensually stimulating and is always performed within the boundaries of consent. Explanation of Abrasion Touch is rarely superficial. It is all about sensation, excitement, variety, and sometimes
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DefinitionAn Adult Baby (also known as AB) is an adult who enjoys behaving like a baby or toddler. This can range from wearing diapers and baby clothes to using a pacifier, bottle, or crib. It is not about actually being a child, but about experiencing a playful, carefree, or dependent role within a safe and voluntary context. Explanation Adult Baby
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DefinitionABDL is short for Adult Baby / Diaper Lover, a broader term that encompasses both the regressive experience (AB) and the love of diapers (DL). These experiences can be sexually charged, but they don’t have to be – for many, it’s all about comfort, security, and emotional safety. For a detailed explanation, see Adult Baby. More information EncyclopediaLetter A
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DefinitionAB stands for Adult Baby, an adult who consciously chooses to temporarily behave like a baby or toddler. This form of experience can be sexually charged, but it doesn’t have to be, for many, it’s all about comfort, security, and emotional safety. For a detailed explanation, see Adult Baby. More information EncyclopediaLetter A
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DefinitionA 24/7 relationship within BDSM refers to a dynamic in which the Dominant–submissive (D/s) or Master/slave (M/s) relationships apply not only during scenes or agreed moments, but continuously – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This form of lifestyle BDSM is characterized by a continuous division of roles, in which power, responsibility, obedience, and care are a structural
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DefinitionThe term 18/7 refers to a BDSM lifestyle in which the Dominant–submissive dynamic is experienced on a daily basis, but not completely and continuously, as is the case with 24/7. The numbers indicate that the D/s dynamic is present for about 18 hours a day, usually outside of working hours or other obligations. Explanation 18/7 Not everyone who desires a
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DefinitionThe term 121 (pronounced “one-to-one”) refers to a private session between one Dominant and one sub, in which exclusive attention, personal wishes, and professional boundaries are central. Explanation 121 If you spend some time in the world of BDSM, sooner or later you will come across the term 121. You will hear it regularly, especially in the context of professional
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