BDSM-Encyclopedia – English
An online BDSM Encyclopedia. Is that really necessary? I have often asked myself that question. Yet time and again, I see why it is necessary. Because there are still stubborn prejudices against people with desires that deviate from the norm. I still see people who hide themselves, who judge themselves or paralyze themselves out of fear of not being accepted. Misunderstandings run rampant, knowledge disappears in the fleeting nature of social media, and the soul of BDSM is increasingly lost from view. And every time, I feel that unmistakable fire again: this encyclopedia must be created. Not out of luxury or ambition, but because it is simply necessary.
Harmful content
We live in a time when, at first glance, the world seems freer than ever, but in which rules and restrictions are becoming increasingly strict. On social media, you can hardly share anything about BDSM without the risk of your post being deleted or your account being blocked. As a result, serious information often ends up in the same category as “harmful content.” Yet right now, there is a great need for nuance, explanation, and reliable information about BDSM.
That is why this BDSM Encyclopedia exists. Here you will find serious and accessible explanations about BDSM, without sensationalism or stigma. You will discover not only the loving and connecting side of BDSM, but also the parts that often remain invisible: aftercare, preliminary discussions, hygiene, risks, trust, consent, and emotional safety. Everything that really matters if you want to experience BDSM in a safe and conscious way.
Knowledge must not disappear
The knowledge we have built up as a community should not disappear due to censorship or superficiality. BDSM is so much more than a game with a whip. It is a way to get to know yourself, to acknowledge desires, and to engage in deep human contact. That richness deserves to be preserved, clear and visible, in words that will remain even when other sources disappear.
My mission is clear: to bring BDSM back to its essence. Beyond the clichés, beyond the quick thrills, to the core of what it really is: an encounter between people who dare to give and receive. Where strength and surrender meet, and where authenticity is more important than a role or a game.
Against the tide!
I choose to continue sailing against the tide. Not to provoke, but to make visible what has been invisible for too long. Because I believe in openness, in awareness, and in the power of knowledge. Because those who know what they are doing can choose more freely. And those who feel understood no longer need to hide themselves.
This BDSM Encyclopedia is for you.
For you who are curious and finally want to understand what BDSM really means.
For you who are just starting out and looking for guidance.
But also for you who have been playing for years but are looking for new inspiration, safely and with respect.
And also for you, as a care provider, student, or researcher, who wants to look beyond the clichés and stereotypes.
In short: this encyclopedia is for anyone who feels that BDSM is more than what you see on television or in superficial videos. For anyone who desires and wants to take responsibility. For anyone who discovers that BDSM is not just a game, but also a mirror of who you are.
I create this site with love.
For you.
For us.
And for those who are yet to come.
